"I ask myself, in mercy, or in common sense, if we cannot alter the conviction to fit the body, should we not in certain circumstances, alter the body to fit the conviction?" -- Dr. Harry Benjamin, M.D

Partners & Spouses & SOFFA

TransOhio maintains a list of resources for Partners & Spouses & SOFFA's of transgender people. This is by no means a complete list of available resources. If you'd like to add a resource to this list, please send an email to us at TransOhio@gmail.com.
 
Children of Transgender
A Seat on the SOFFA (blog)
Kids of Trans


Partners & Spouses & SOFFA's
http://transmarried.blogspot.com
TransMarried: Transgender Couple, married and happy about it

http://www.unwellness.com

http://www.herwife.com
A blog archive of a spouse's journey (note: archive, not an active blog)

http://www.tgcrossroads.org/yoursoffavoice
An online archive section of tg crossroads that was geared towards SOFFAs.

http://ftm-soffa.net
Online forum for trans, particularly transmen and their family and friends

http://www.straightspouse.org
An online community for heterosexual identified spouses

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/TransFamilySpouses
Online yahoo support list for spouses and partners of trans identified individuals

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ftmsos
An online yahoo support list for for partners of FTMs regardless of sexual identity

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/engender_partners
An online yahoo support list for all partners of transgendered individuals

http://transpartner.wordpress.com
A blog written by the partner of a FTM

http://www.myhusbandbetty.com
A blog written by Helen Boyd, a wife of a transwoman. There is a link to her online forum where trans and partners are able to discuss openly how transness affects their lives.

http://crossdressers-forum.com/forums
An online forum for crossdressers, SOs, friends and family. Also provides a safe place for partners to post.

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums
An online forum for crossdressers, transgendered, transexuals, their loved ones and friends. Has a safe space for partners to post.

http://www.tri-ess.org/spice/CDSO/CDSO.htm
An online forum for female partners of crossdressers.

http://annierushden.blogspot.com
A blog written by the wife of a MTF and her experiences during her spouse's transition and beyond.

http://www.bussert.com/jessica/sharon.html
A partner's story about her life during her spouse's transition.



Books
  • Trans People in Love
  • My Husband Betty
  • She's Not the Man I Married
  • Head Over Heels: Wives Who Stay With Cross-Dressers and Transsexuals
  • Crossdresers: And those Who Share Their Lives
  • My Husband Wears My Clothes: Crossdressing From the Perspective of a Wife

**We are currently updating this list of links, websites, blogs and books. Check back soon for more resources for Partners, Spouses and other SOFFA's.

If you have a resource you'd like us to list, please email us at TransOhio@gmail.com.

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